10 THINGS THAT ATTRACTS GIRLS IN GUYS.

Dudes,listen up! Girls are delicate in a way! In the aspect of love,girls take extra strategy to fall for a guy.However,girls are usually moved by words.Unfortunately,most guys think the only thing that's capable of winning a girl's love is "money",very untrue.As a matter of fact,wealth can only buy you a woman's attention not her love.There are weird things that attracts girls to certain guys.If you are looking for the most effective way to get a lady falling helplessly in love with you,you are here!
     The following are the 10 things girls find irresistible in guys:

  1.GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR 

A guy who doesn't take life too seriously appears really attractive in that, humour is an admired and cherished attribute in guys.It's actually boring to sit with a guy for an hour or two and there are no jokes or comic scene in between discussions.A humongous sense of humour appeals to a girl's heart.Also,guys who are good with jokes tend to have more female friends.Of course,everyone loves being happy,so who wouldn't be attracted to the one who brings out this laughter and ectasy in you?Being funny doesn't mean cracking jokes that's more like a cliche or an already known joke that's not likely to pull any fun.Being funny is actually being yourself,reacting to funny situations excitedly rather than being impassive and unmoved.Every girl loves a funny guy.

2.NICE CULINARY SKILL

You don't have to be the the chef of that famous restaurant in China before you can give your girlfriend a nice breakfast/lunch.Girls love guys that express interest in cooking,it's simply amazing when a guy prepares something edible and says "does it taste good"? A reasonable girl would feel humbled and really attracted to you even when the meal is an embodiment of error.*lol*.Seriously,a gesture of care is just all that matters.Go ahead and give her breakfast in bed,but do not serve a main course meal in bed.Desserts are just appropriate,Ladies admire the kitchen guys!!

3.ART SKILLS

Girls really find these type of guys attractive.Although not everyone likes to be sketched,but it's actually very romantic to ladies.Doing this to a girl makes her feel special and honoured,she'll gradually become attracted to you especially when the art work is really professional and identical.You can't imagine the feeling of ectasy that goes on in the mind of a girl drawn by a guy..! It's weird but effective.

4.MUSICAL  CREATIVITY

Most girls if not all prefer to be at the front of a guy playing with those guitar strings than in a classroom writing an exam.A guy who sings well has a great advantage.Music appeals to the ears,the soul,the mind,the body.Singing for a girl is a romantic and most beautiful thing a guy can do..(a guy with a good voice).However,singing is not the only musical thing girls find attractive in guys.Dexterity or skill in playing musical instruments is attractive.Seeing a guy stroke those guitar strings with so much ardour or a keyboardist professionally play the keyboard is so eye-catching.

5.INTELLIGENCE

The unarguable fact is that intelligent people are the most admired in any academic gathering.To girls,every intelligent guy is a handsome guy.Ladies just love guys with focus,guys with proper tenses,guys who are figurative and innovative.An intelligent guy would normally have fleets of girls flocking around him,it's really captivating.Intelligence makes a girl blinded to a guy's looks actually,especially when the guy in question contributes positively to the lady's academics.An excellent and outstanding intelligent quotient is an admired attribute any girl would admire in a guy.Infact,It's enough to trigger love.Seeing how much a guy studies convinces a lady that such a guy is smart and problem-solving.However,I am not saying unintelligent guys have no chances with being attractive to a girl,there are so many ways to look smart and brilliant.Some of which are;talking less and reasonably,studying,making friends with intelligent guys,dressing smart e.t.c. Work on your intelligence and start counting the number of girls begging for your acquaintance.

6.CONFIDENCE

Confidence is the most sexy attribute a guy can ever have.Even when a guy is not buoyant or good looking and he's confident of himself,he has done a lot already! Lack of confidence turns off a lady.For instance,when you stand to express your feelings for a girl and you practically make an obvious move by saying"hello miss,please...just a second".She might be kind enough to stop and listen and then you just lose confidence and start shivering while stuttering words like a kid saying"I....I....I....em..." Nah nah nah! That's just not it.Lack of confidence makes you feel other people are better than you are(inferiority complex)ladies are attracted to guys who compose themselves and appear relaxed and certain!

7.FITNESS

A well trimmed body attracts.A guy who constantly works out to stay fit and healthy is likely to attract more ladies than that guy with a baggy tummy who practically eats every hour.A manly body build with muscles keeps you feeling strong and healthy with a lot of self confidence.

8.GENIUNE SELF LOVE

It is always good to love your self wholeheartedly before you crave for the love of another.Genuine love for yourself as a guy makes you enjoy yourself to the fullest.You'll be living life with no complain and grudge,you'll not blame yourself too much for petty issues.You'll never compare yourself to others if you truly love yourself,you'll make the best out of everything you do,you'll be totally attractive when you do this.

9.NICE DRESS SENSE

Trust me,when you avoid those colour riots and appear your best you'll really be getting attention.A properly dressed guy is admired greatly by the ladies,that well ironed suit and well polished shoe is just sexy and inviting! 

10.FRAGRANCE

A cool and irresistible fragrance feels warm and exciting to a lady.It's just like the scent of a rose flower or lavender.Guys with proper hygiene and sweet scent appeals to ladies.A choking and repugnant smell turns a girl off.Also,good smell brings this feeling of warmth to the atmosphere and spices it up.Do not wear harsh perfumes ever,instead,get a cool one that keeps you totally irresistible!

10 THINGS THAT KILLS TRUST IN A RELATIONSHIP

Relationships built on mistrust can be very fragile and easily broken,even so,a relationship that has over the years gone smoothly and problem-free is still not guaranteed to work if one of the partner does some or all of these 10 things below.However,trust takes time to build,once broken,it's really difficult to retain.Sincerely speaking,once you've given someone a reason to mistrust you,it's sad to say you might not be trusted again by that person 100%.That's why you should jettison all acts that reduces the trust your partner or spouse has in you.The following are some of the things that's very capable of reducing trust ;read on!
1.SECRETS
     This slowly kills relationships,alters the level of trust and eventually breaks up the relationship you have with your partner.In fact,when you constantly hide to do various things like making calls,sending text messages,chatting,you are giving your partner a reason to suspect you.It's likely that when you started your relationship you weren't a taciturn and reticent person,suddenly you become reserved in words,not willing to share issues,always saying "I'm fine" wherein the actual sense you aiint fine,it really rips that trust your partner has in you.So stop it with the secrets.You should not keep secrets from the one you love,no matter what.At the end,it leads to nothing but catastrophe and hurts.

2.LIES.                                                           

Telling lies to your partner is not an ideal thing to do if you don't want them getting hurt.Be truthful,always say the right thing.Initially,a lie might sooth an ache,but subsequently when your partner finds out,you kill the trust they have in you.Overtime,they start seeing you as someone who never tells the truth and the day you tend to say the truth,it appears as a lie to  your partner,so the convenient thing is always being  truthful on issues affecting your relationship.

3.NO ROMANCE:

Romance is an integral aspect of a relationship,once taken away,has negative effects on that partner who might be a victim.When you constantly snap at your partner at every move they take towards romancing you,you basically give such partner a reason to mistrust you.It's a warning sign that either of them is a cheat.Do not incessantly complain of fatigue to your partner.In all,learn to be responsive to each other's needs so as to clear all doubts and mistrust.

4.CONSTANT NAGGING

Complaining on daily basis is just simply annoying.Apart from the fact that it puts either partner off,it simply causes trust issues in a relationship.You keep your partner wondering about your fidelity.So stop nagging and putting blames on each other,instead,settle your differences and move on.No one is a saint.

5.NO COMMUNICATION.

Oh yes! When last did you give a call to that person you claim to love? Communication is what keeps a relationship going,communication is to a relationship what  fuel is to a car.So why should you alter your communication with your partner? as often as possible try to keep in touch.Not keeping in touch with your partner leads to misunderstandings which eventually leads to mistrust.If you no longer get in touch with your partner,you give he/she an impression that you don't have them in mind which leads to doubts and uncertainty in relationships causing trust problems.

6.ADDICTION TO GADGETS 

Holding your phone always and preventing your partner from handling it gives an impression of mistrust.Even at night,you keep your phone beneath a pillow,at dawn,you take it practically with you to the bathroom.You become extra conscious of calls and pings entering your phone..come on! You are giving your partner a reason to suspect you,and you are killing trust.

7.BREAKING YOUR PROMISES

You promise him/her you gonna get a ticket for you two to see a movie.All of a sudden,you come up with a flimsy excuse to jettison the already planned outing,it just annoys and reduces trust level.Promises should not be made if you can't fufil them.Don't raise the hope of your partner and crumble it in a twinkle of an eye.Breaking a promise cannot only be hurting but also devastating and harmful.Incessantly breaking your promises,kills trust.

8.BETRAYAL

No matter how we look at it,cheating on someone once kills trust immediately.Even though you were accepted back the trust can never be whole again.Everyday of your relationship your partner would struggle to bring back the trust he/she once had in you,but it's nearly impossible to get that same trust back.Betraying someone you love leaves a stigma of hatred on the victim.They might never trust you again,trust is like a paper,once crumbled..it can never really become perfect again.Cheating on your partner kills trust to the fullest.

9.PRIDE/ARROGANCE

Arrogance as a concept creates doubts and doubts kills trust.There are people who believe they are infallible and as such they do not make mistakes.Such people refuse corrections by their partners or might even get raged by an attempt to correct them.These kind of people are more likely to suffer trust issues.pride is the reason you do not feel remorseful after offending your partner and so you cause them to mistrust you and say hurtful words.Arrogance can kill trust in numerous ways,it's best to avoid it.

10.ALWAYS SEEKING PRIVACY

When you no longer see the need to make time for your partner,you are always busy all round the clock,you are killing trust.And gradually,you two just become distant from each other,with time,you'll realize you do not even understand yourselves anymore.Constantly seeking to be left alone instigates fear and doubt in the mind of your partner and eventually kills that trust you've taken time to build and nurture.

HOW TO GET A GIRL TO KISS YOU

So you are probably going nuts over that girl's lips and you just don't know how to say it.Fantasizing about kissing someone can be weird but you'll feel relaxed once you've achieved it,*winks*.Kissing is an intimate way of communicating your feelings for someone,but once you are turned down,it can be very pathetic.There are different approaches to making a girl wanna kiss you.In all,you'll need to learn and know all of the following:
1.PREPARE YOUR MIND AND BE RELAXED.
Come on,you ain't writing an exam,there's no need to fret.Be relaxed and confident.Clear all doubts that she's gonna turn you down and be focused.Call her up and inform her you'll like to meet up and discuss,or probably any occasion you think might bring you two together.

2.GET A QUIET BUT ROMANTIC SCENERY

This is really important,you shouldn't expect a girl to be excited about kissing you in a public place especially since you know she's been reluctant towards kissing you.You should make sure where you plan to kiss her is as romantic and resplendent as possible.Even if you can't get a beautiful place to serenade her,you can make do with what you have by eliminating offensive odour from the place,dirts and heat.

3.GET RID OF ANY BAD BREATH.                   

You would agree with me that there's nothing more that turns off someone from kissing than "bad breath" It's simply disgusting.No one wanna kiss that mouth that keeps oozing out repulsive and choking smell.Brush your teeth well,basically twice a day(morning and night).Also,ensure you make use of mouth sprays if it's so serious.This might be the reason your crush is turned off,but would not let you know.After a shower,wear nice perfumes and avoid sweating excessively.Try chewing a mint gum an hour before kissing her,don't forget to throw it off before you meet with her,you don't want your gum to become your Achilles heel.LOL!! 

4.MAKE REGULAR EYE CONTACTS.             

When you're finally with her,lock eyes with her once in a while.Smile regularly while you try bringing up a topic that wouldn't last long.Do not begin to talk about the latest trend of jean now available in the market.That's just not it.Talk about something relating to the situation.For example,"seeing you now just makes me feel uneasy yet fulfilled"."Your presence makes the atmosphere romantic".You might get her laughing or smiling shyly and then you are on it dude!!! 

5.KISS HER ON THE SIDE OF HER LIPS.  

Before doing this,keep complimenting her..tell her "you are so beautiful" "your face makes me think of a blossoming flower". I bet she might smile and then kiss her on the side of her lips gently.Watch her reaction,if she doesn't seem angry proceed to her forehead and if she's still calm,place a hand on her chin and say " I wanna resist but I just can't" stare at her so intensely that she'll be helpless.

6.KISS HER PASSIONATELY.                            

Don't be in a hurry to chop off those lips.Be very polite and sweet.Go close to her,open your lips a bit and kiss her passionately while pressing your lips first,if she reciprocates the kiss,consider stroking with your tongue and that's it! I'll love to hear your experiences in the comments.

HOW TO PROPOSE TO A WOMAN AND GET A YES!!!

Proposing to a lady should not make you frightened.Now at this stage,it is assumed that you've found that woman you wanna walk down the aisle.You are probably looking for the most romantic and irresistible way to present your intentions,you are at the right place.Although, before proposing,be sure she will have a positive answer for you.The following steps should give you an insight of what an ideal and romantic marriage proposal should look like!

1.BE FULLY CONVINCED.
    You should know that marriage is for a lifetime.You don't wanna rush in and rush out in a twinkle of an eye.That's why you need to ascertain the qualities you've seen in your woman by talking to friends and most importantly your parents who are far more experienced than you are in the life pursuit.

2.BE CONFIDENT, RELAX AND PRACTICE.

Lack of confidence could obviously keep you stammering in the middle of your proposal and you just find yourself mincing words.Be relaxed and composed.Get a massage a day before,get good sleep and most importantly,practice your lines! Yes...get those lines into your head.you shouldn't be swapping "I can't imagine a life without you" for "I wish life can be better with you" odd right??? So practice.

3.SET THE SCENE.

In fact,this is the most crucial aspect.As this would depict the mood and atmosphere .You can rent a scene and get it designed by experts.Get your family members to help out with stickers which can indicate "please say yes to my brother" or "we want you for a wife please". Spice up the atmosphere with music,flowers,perfumes e.t.c.You might consider proposing on a ship,hall,restaurant..e.t.c

4.CALL HER AND FIX A TIME

Ensure that your timing is okay by her .Becareful not to give her any inkling that you wanna propose.Call her and get the ring ready for action .

5.PROPOSE TO HER DUDE!!!!

Yes,the deal day.Be relaxed and dress your best.Wear those lovely smiles .You might consider going on a suit or whatever makes you comfortable  but good looking.Lead your lady to the scene while you have her eyes blindfolded with a cloth.Careful not to tighten it excessively...you don't want a proposal turning into a kidnap! Lol!! Take her by the hand or waist and yes dude,say those nice words to her...." I can catch grenades for you" *please be mine forever* unbind her eyes and go on your kneels.Am sure you got a yes!!!!